Just recently Ive felt very annoyed with people like therapists,psychiatrist,and psychologists,ive seen over the years,because by now I would have hoped to
have been in a relationship,and ive spoke to all those medical people about my problems in achieving that,and has far as im concerned there is no help for
people like me as far as that goes in the uk,I go to a drop in and 1 or 2 couples are pairing up going out together,admittingly they are younger than me,but
its only highlighting my problems of not meeting anyone.Ive had people say to me im better off being on my own,but they are normally people that are in
relationships,but i notice they dont want to be on there own.
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I think being anoyed with the pheropists etc means you seem to think its there fault that your not in a relashtionship.....
They can't magically make someone love and care for anyone........ Each of us, and they way we are and who we are........ our personalitys our hearts and minds.... is what people grow to love about us...... There is and will be someone out there for you....... I think more than anything your trying to hard..... most people who try so hard to get into a relationship with someone.......... focuse so much on the fustration of not getting what they want when they want it.... they start missing the good opertunities..... Take a step back.... stop looking for awhile.,....... put yourself first....... work on you and who you are and who you want to be......... and when the time is right...... that someone special will come along. Hang in there lesley.
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Luf Fairy&All *I live in my own world..... But its ok, We know each other there* We share one body...... But we have our own minds, thoughts, feelings, likes and dislikes.... we are each unique...... Just like you are! 
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Thanks both of you for replying to me,a few months ago i tried to accept that i probably will never meet anyone,but recently its starting to depress me
again,everytime i go out and i see couples together,im reminded all the time about this problem that i have,I know its harder for me because of my gender
problem.
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It is hard to be alone. I do the same thing when I go out. I see all the couples and I just feel so sad. I guess I have pretty much accepted the fact that I'll never be in a relationship again. I think about it a lot. Never to be loved. Never to be held close or kissed. Know what really gets to me? It is silly. The jewelry commercials. You know the ones where someone is giving someone else a special gift to show how much they love them. I think to myself, I'll never have that. It hurts. I'm sorry I don't have any words of encouragement. I just know how you feel and I am sorry. I really am sorry. It sounds like you are in a lot of pain and I understand. |
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Hugs to you both.
Guess we diffrent.... We good at pushing people away. we get scared, so push people away before they get to close.... That way they cant hurt us. HUGS for you both and good thoughts!
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